if you hate farnese you just hate neglected children with internalized biphobia because "technically they had food and a roof over their mouth"

being useless is a whole nother type of shame. there is no such thing as a "spoiled" neglected child. when she found herself in the woods, alone, convinced she was going to die 'out there by herself' even though the camp was 2 minutes away and falling asleep on some stump, i was there with her