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Lidsel Arvinsen
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.NET programmer/visual artist/historical drip connoisseur. Works on making indie cRPGs. She/her 🌈🇪🇺 lidsel.tumblr.com/
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As for that other possible cause - I have friends who frequently discuss degenerate online-brained behaviors they witnessed and I found myself later second-guessing interactions I had online as a result. It took me a while to realize my brain was slowly getting poisoned by this discourse.

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By legitimate reason I don't mean you specifically, but like the workplace vibe in general or a specific past experience. You should absolutely have a talk about it, there might be more important things to address than the choice of emoji.

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I feel like this claim has been made about like every possible emoji. I think the problem to be examined is the people involved. Do they have legitimate reasons to assume such interpretation or is their brain being poisoned by some trash internet discourse they should probably disconnect from?

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And obviously it's not even certain you can trust the legitimate services not to let that information leak and for that reason you can always refuse, but how many of us could afford to lose e.g. their main google account? I just don't like thinking about how badly cornered we are.

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One thing I gotta note about the phishing attempts - it's fucked up that services will legitimately ask you for scans of your government-issued identification to confirm your identity, because people aren't as alarmed when phishers ask for the same thing.

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The abusers are gone from my life, but the things they said are not easily removed from memory and will probably haunt me in moments of doubt, forever.

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Some friends believe I was picked as a mark because I already had a history of being psychologically abused and vilified by the perpetrators, so I would see what was happening as my fault and be devastated where others would block and move on without care.

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A while ago I got into an argument on discord with someone who later reached out to other people detailing why they should block me. To this day I wonder if they were somehow involved whenever I find myself on a shared block list or blocked by someone out of the blue.

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That feeling when you're ready to believe a phishing message about being brigaded and facing a permanent suspension because you received a similar message about a real instance of that happening from a friend before. 😑

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I'm excited about some companions in upcoming games... Taash is a qunari dragon slayer in Dragon Age: The Veilguard by BioWare Yatzli is an orlan wizard in Avowed by Obsidian Entertainment #art#fanart#DragonAge#Avowed

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Lidsel Arvinsen
@lidsel.bsky.social
.NET programmer/visual artist/historical drip connoisseur. Works on making indie cRPGs. She/her 🌈🇪🇺 lidsel.tumblr.com/
41 followers44 following550 posts