Ooooh 👀 also realized you have not yet had a “tell me, by the one you love most in the world…” ;>

Counselor and mediator, of course. and based on my cohousing experiences: reluctant logistics/task management organization when there’s no one else stepping up for it.

Damnit, this was one of the go-to places for all my trans fem friends and a great starting point to give to clients too. Now where am I supposed to send people??

I like the theory that it’s because the French romances were written largely for a female court audience and so they weren’t given names in anticipation of readers projecting themselves onto the ladies in the text ^^ like video game characters

#LGBTQWriteAThon#queerwriters#writingcommunity#lgbtqwriters#writers

and it's *quality* which is even *more* wild

I like to imagine that all the cases of mistaken identity in Arthurian legend were the outcome of medieval fans going like “ok but could Lancelot beat Perceval in a fight?” and then contriving a story where they have to fight.

This *exactly*. It's people trying to preserve the idea of a safe predictable reality for themselves, rationalize it into something *controllable*. Like some sort of neighbor to the Just World Fallacy, I think.

I am so excited :D :D :D we need more good nuanced complex polyamory rep

feeling "not trans enough" is a symptom of being trans /hj (seriously I swear it's practically universal, especially for anyone not entirely binary gender)