yeah, that's the point. if you're "deep stealth" that is probably really hard to deal with but you're choosing to live and be perceived as a cis woman, so i am only respecting that. if she comes out as trans i will respect that as well, she's harmful as fuck either way.

and we're really tired of seeing shitty people doing shitty things and not wanting to say their name because we just don't want to draw out the assholes come to argue with us while not accepting basic logic. i believe in general people who cause problems should be named. we're just real tired.