honestly every person should have some basic fucking self reflection skills. if someone gently prompting you to think about gender makes you uncomfortable it's because you're either bad at introspection or an egg. if you're genuinely cis you can have that convo and come out of it fine.

like, if you thinking about your gender makes you uncomfortable maybe try interrogating that instead of lashing out about it.

yeah i myself had that introspection years ago and came to the conclusion that i am "cis i guess" as in i feel neither any issues with nor strong attachment to my agab but doing any gender experimentation about it feels like a whole hassle i don't feel like doing