I think my favorite part of this is the "who gives a shit" tag because yeah That kind of performance of acceptability and BUT IT IS PROBLEMATIC bullshit on fandom spaces has been extremely harmful "you can only be weird within these acceptable margins", policing when it is all adults being weird

this is what I keep talking about with people, The people who police usually have their own weird, and socially "unacceptable" kinks, which sure let them do their thing, but they always feel it's their sovereign duty to stop "problem kinks".

"if you ever want friends who aren't secretly afraid of you" is maybe in the lead for me

imposing the cop in their head on everyone else "Maybe it was accidental, I hope they are not actually Problematic and Into the Problematic posts" policing what others like in order to shun them out of spaces, because to them, if someone is engaging positively with "weirdness" they are unsafe

Having sex with a toy is problematic now? LMAO guess i gotta throw my dildos away lol 😆

I was in foster care with a guy who fucked stuffed animals, but I left him alone because he wasn't hurting anyone, unlike some of the other boys who were there because they were criminals.

Twenty-something years ago it was That Guy Who Used To Be A Big Name screaming about silly inflatable unicorns being too kinky to be allowed in the fandom, but big-boobed BDSM vixens were fine because that was "normal." It's always the same story, only the names change.

Someday I need to make a post online either here or on Tumblr about how I genuinely do not give a shit about what weird nonsense people are into unless it involves kids or (non anthropomorphic) animals. Like the real world isn't Toy Story no one get mentally scarred by plushie fucking lmao

"performance of acceptability" is such an amazing way to put this!

What plushie sex blog did they repost? Asking for science :3

Reminds me of someone trying to get me to hate an artist because they have a piss kink. I simply figured that since I am not going to fuck that artist anytime soon it was really a non-issue.