...wow I mangled that so much I had to think about what I meant. Stupid fat thumbs, this is why I shouldn't post on my phone. "But that's not what she had, so it has no bearing on anything."

that aside, I also thought of ARFID. it should be more widely known about.

I got your meaning the first time, and although I hope I was helpful to someone, I wasn't as helpful as intended, and started taking a longer look at what I post.