If I told you I feel unlovable, you’d probably stand up in protest. You might say that you enjoy my presence and my contributions. The statement seems absurd. I grew up in a loving family, and while I sometimes may be a loner by choice, I’ve a... https://lukasrosenstock.net/2024/10/05/if-i-told.html
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Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum neuen Kapitel in der Karriere!
Ich speichere mittlerweile kaum noch was, weil ich weiß dass das "später" wahrscheinlich nie kommt.
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However there are also probably many men who want to disassociate from their family and have a new identity, so the expectation shouldn't be on the woman. In a perfect world it would probably be like 50/50 which name becomes the family name.
Yes, of course, there are good reasons for picking one name over another, and some want to get rid of their family name or just prefer their husband's name.