"futanari?" probably. i think when trans people use it to refer to themselves it's a bit weird, but not harmful. i've never seen anyone use it in a non-sexual context, so i don't believe it to be an insult or a proper fetishisation of real people - because that's a whole other discussion.

not using it to describe my characters has been more of a help than a hindrance though, and i would be lying if i said i wasn't glad to leave it in the dust. they are girls (with dicks). that is all. they aren't this... fake thing that the west has co-opted.