Anyway, good stuff in this article. I'm at the age now where, while I'm fulfilling many roles for my mom, I need to take steps on my own behalf as well, which is just weird. (Mom is in really good shape, nothing dire going on.)(we don't live together)

Yeah, I’m calling a rideshare if I have a 2AM emergency and my cousin’s kids are teenagers. So it’s really difficult to see this long stretch ahead of me where I only have myself. But I do want to start making a will and funeral arrangements/wishes so at least those things are taken care of.