apparently it's fine to misgender people if they're non binary and/or you don't like them! (don't get me started on how insanely wrong these posts are wrt Butler's actual work, that's a whole new thread)

jfc can she just shut the fuck up

Yeah... Yeah Misgent and degendering does seem to be acceptable if the target is disliked or does/performs gender wrong, which includes "not half assing presentation, which hurts those who do" Which is extremely fucked up