separates "close friend" from "partner" is if we've had a discussion where we codify commitment and expectations. 3/3
commitments. I care deeply for the people closest to me. I just don't get those butterflies-in-the-stomach, overwhelming surges of emotion that I hear other people talk about. Moreover, my love for close friends and for partners is pretty much the same thing. The only thing 2/n
Her music is pretty good, I say as a fellow old. What I think isn't okay is how despite the fact that she keeps saying how uncomfortable fame makes her feel, the community is obsessing over her and being downright creepy to her in many cases.
My point was you didn't have to "Well, actually" me as if I don't know that people can be harassed in DMs. I don't like the fact they're not here. That's all my post was saying. But apparently you couldn't let me have my opinion without correcting me.
Weird take, but okay. You're acting as if I haven't also been the victim of harassment via DMs. I'm very public about the fact I have. DMs are still useful for tons of things.
No way to lock your account down in case of harassment is planned and though they pushed it back, all accounts will be visible to anyone whether they are logged in or not. That's a pretty heavy privacy faux pas.
Ask and you shall receive. Stay tuned.
Yes, I realize many polyam community leaders disagree with ENM even being a term at all. In theory, I agree. In practice, it's still a useful term when describing nonmonogamy to people from outside our circles.