No need to feel dumb, there’s a lot of things like that. I look at it as another expression of executive dysfunction. It’s extremely frustrating though so I feel your mood. Figuring out what is complicated and what is straightforward is hard to do at first glance. I’m proud of you though!

what a great way to look at it; you’re right, all unknown tasks DO seem equally daunting until you unwrap them. thanks for putting it into words 💖