"Trans sex workers have been doing drag for a long time, we simply need to pay attention." RuPaul's Bigotry is a Drag by Jack Parker https://tryst.link/blog/rupauls-bigotry-is-a-drag/
When you're using an insult that specifically refers to sex workers, to insult someone else who is not one, you're doing the opposite of destigmatizing our profession.
PSA about condoms that's especially important for sex workers: Constant exposure to latex (including latex condoms) can cause you to develop a sensitivity or allergy. If you're seeing a mid to high volume of clients, genital irritation might not just be due to friction!
I'm going to launch a Kickstarter soon for the creation of an anthology about the experiences of transmasculine sex workers! If this interests you, please you can read more about the project here and follow it on Kickstarter: workingguys.carrd.co
Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology - A page to describe the project!
Pinch the tip of the condom as you roll it on! Leaving air in the tip will cause it to expand (and maybe break) when ejaculation happens, as the force pressurizes the air and works with friction to split it. Share to save someone from a broken condom!
This blog post is constructed to put you in the position of a person who has just begun selling sex whilst walking you through the choices you would be pushed to make in terms of spending money on ads, and the reasons why!
An article about how much advertising on escorting sites costs, the ways that sites charge more for features that vulnerable sex workers are the most likely to need, and what sex workers have to consider when we are deciding what we can afford to pay. jackviolet.com/2024/03/29/p...
On top of the costs that cannot be avoided, such as travel and accommodation, it is heinous that escorting websites charge so much money for sex workers to advertise.
This weekend I spent more time than I should have talking about Taylor Lorenz. On Assigned this morning, Alyssa Steinsiek is asking people (including me) to refocus on the queer students who are telling their stories about the school Nex Benedict attended before his death.
Arguing about who’s platforming Chaya Raichik is a distraction from the voices we desperately need to hear from after the death of Nex Benedict, those of young people at Owasso's public schools.
why do people say "cold hard facts" when they mean something is extra certain? cold and hard is how you describe vampire dick, not the concept of truth.
Clients Cancelling. An article about clients cancelling their bookings with sex workers, how it's inconsequential to the client and can be financially devastating to a sex worker, and the resentment and desperation I feel when it happens to me. jackviolet.com/2024/02/25/c...
A cancellation from a sex worker is a minor inconvenience to a client. They can book another sex worker or forego seeing one without any significant consequences. If a client cancels on a sex worker, ...