also to be completely honest : i wanted 3 kids when i was younger. now it's down to one and our financial situation is the biggest issue with our envy to have a kid. for me the state/community should be the one providing every finances and services needed to raise a child.

You mean everything related to parenthood should be given for free to parents, so they only have to care about proper education and grow for their kids ? WHAT A COMMUNIST !!! 😱 ....I love it. 😍