I'm demi, so I'll only develop attractions to someone after connecting with them. However, connecting with someone doesn't mean I'll become attracted to them. I have friends that I'm very close to that I don't have any interest in. 1/2

I can't fully explain why I become attracted to certain people and not others. How the other person behaves may be a factor. If a friend is flirty and shows interest, I may be more likely to develop an attraction than a friend that is chill and wants to be platonic. 2/2