Did they "trauma dump," or did you just not expect them to answer "how are you?" honestly?

my favorite is when it's actually both ;)

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the thing that annoys me the most is when "friends" complain about "trauma dumping." you're friends! you're supposed to support each other! some of my best friendships are based on mutual "trauma dumping"

Three years ago if you asked that question you'd take it back like "sorry that's a stupid question."