Or at least thats what im still trying to do because FAMILY ugh. And I'm glad you're creating that bboundary for yourself c: GO ROBIN!!

Yes it's not constant, and it depends on one's headspace at the moment and all. That's very clear. But what's sure is that I used to disregard that no matter what and I gave way too much to people who fucked me over or even gaslighted me after that. I'm not doing this anymore...