With Thancred, however, Rahera initiated the kiss after they had a heartfelt talk on the First in Rak'tika. It was very long overdue. With Oyuun and Kat, my partner & I agree that Oyuun initiated in Azys Lla, after confessing his feelings, but Kat turns it on him, kisses him, returns to battle.

Filir'a and Minfilia was actually Min, just before he stormed the Castrum. But he'd made his feelings known long before then, because of course he did. Fil hasn't had anyone as of yet since Minfilia. ; n;