"I just don't see why you have to make it your whole personality" I'm not. You just latch onto what makes me different and refuse to see anything else. Whether it's being queer or trans or poly or disabled. You'd just rather I either conform or be silent.

I remember the only poly rep I saw as a child was negative and it was on FRIENDS and it just ends with chandler leaving it because he felt unfulfilled being the “have sex partner” gods does poly need better rep than that. It’s why I try to talk about my two girlfriends as much as possible.