There's no words for what I am, only what I'm not. Nonbinary. I end up describing the negative space around me rather than the actual shape of who I am.

I got lucky that I've got another term under the trans and non-binary umbrellas that does describe me - pangender.

We ended up turning nonbinary into a third gender, because none of us has been given the space to actually be more than that while also being understood by others.