Fuck it, this is bugging me. The two cornerstones of queer culture are radical self-determination and ongoing consent. In our community, you don’t get to shame someone because they won’t come out or transition or whatever actions they choose not to take. You’re not welcome here if you do.

Louder please

Agreed. The queer community deals with enough bullshit externally for the call to be coming from inside the house like that.

It's so much easier to positively encourage people to come out when they're ready. Just be an example of a happy, fulfilled, out and proud person, and that will inspire folks far better than shaming ever would.

I just started blocking all the accounts I saw involved with it. No regrets.

I agree but don't prioritize it. I will not police it. Between the two harms being fought over it is the lesser.