There were drunk nights he made out with anyone who reminded him of the first man he loved (yes he didn't realize that's how he felt until he had breakdown at 3am over a song during his first week in school that lead to his roommate comforting him with video games and booze)

By his 4th year he felt settled. The time away from home did him some good. He still kept up with his studies and kept doing what his parents wished that he would do but he wasn't going to let them control anymore than what career path he chose.