and I'm now in the unenviable position of actively willing him to die. The MF will literally be 103 in January. He longs for death so he can be with his wife again who died in 2021. He *wants* to die and I'm just like SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT, GRAMPS

It would be a similar situation with my brother-in-law's grandpa except an uncle has swindled his way into control of the bank account and all finances. Family can be a real ugly business. A death money concern.