Sometimes physical characteristics are changed or enhanced to better align themselves with the gender they identify with. Doesn’t mean that characteristic defines the gender For example, just because you have the shoulders a tween European girl doesn’t make you less of a man.

It’s actually your need to attack some of the most marginalized people on earth that do that. Men protect the vulnerable, not bully them. Couple shrugs wouldn’t kill ya. Maybe if you looked more like the man you perceive yourself to be, you wouldn’t prey on others.