I've spent the majority of my life struggling to not be constantly looked down upon as a burden, or incapable, just for being ND. I've learned a lot from that, and I try to give a lot of grace to people who aren't online, but I get a lot angrier when people use up that good will.

yeah this doesn't even touch on the massive overlap between trans and nd people !!! which like, is another major vector of oppression that affects so many of us