And victims could be anyone as well. They can be all of the above, they can be someone you don't agree with or even despise for other reasons. They can be a man or woman or nonbinary, trans or cis. They are frequently not perfect. None of that means they deserve to be abused or disbelieved.

Abusers are frequently the nicest or most charming people in the world. That's how they acquire social capital and hook their victims. It's extremely rare for a person to be cruel right off the bat. You may think "how can my good friend do that? I don't believe it. Something's fishy" believe it