Pansexuality being described as "I like the chocolate, not the wrapper that comes in it" is so relatable and also like...another reason why I simultaneously identify as pansexual, pomosexual, and unlabeled. Because THAT particular description of pan-ness feels unlabeled and defying labels

And honestly I like the idea of simultaneously having a sexuality label on paper that is more like an unlabel like gendernull is for gender and in addition to an unlabel it's also a "defy labels" label like pomosexual. I...just like the idea of pan being "not fitting into your stupid boxes"