Stop acting like something being sexual or fetishized is inherently a bad thing - so long as there is consent - even if that's not why you indulge in it. You'll be surprised how far less plagued with unnecessary shame and guilt you'll be. Trust me on this one, it's genuinely, spiritually freeing.
If it wasn't created with kids, and isn't shared with kids, make the most fetishy depraved weird shit possible and enjoy doing it. It hurts literally nobody and I fucking despise the "people can use it to do harm" argument. People can use bricks as weapons but I don't see you protesting houses.
Exactly. If someone's fetishizing a cartoon dog by putting a diaper on it and wanking to it, WGAF? Cartoons can't consent, but they're also not real! Draw them however you like, and if you want to masturbate to it, go for it!
I agree with this. I come from a religious background, and enjoying my interests and kinks without guilt was such a liberating experience I refuse to be dragged back into that
The moment you backpedal any part of what you enjoy with "not sexual" youve already conceded the ground that you think the point of moral failure falls somewhere on that axis when its on another graph entirely, if it even exists in this context
"It's not always sexual!" And sometimes it is, and that's rad too. Being horny for weird things in consensual contexts is not bad. If you're horny in a way that doesn't hurt anyone then fuck it, who cares
fucking PREACH!! im tired of "NSFW THING BAD" and being thrown under the bus by those who share the same community as I because they think they will get some semblance of acceptance doing so.
If you get le boner or soak'n wet from fudging your Huggies, that's between you and YOUR diaper 😎👉👉 Ain't gotta justify anything.
I used to be one of these people years ago. Then I realized that trying to make my kink and community more "palatable" to people outside it was not only a fruitless endeavor, but was also throwing my community under the bus
Meanwhile its *only* sexual for me. I'm DL, not AB. Fuck being palatable, it's still just consenting adults involved and I'll do whatever I want regardless of what the pearl clutchers think about it
The constant need to justify X or Y to make a kink more appealing to other who don't like it outright is to me a moral failing as in the end it always comes down to someone thinking they know a better way for people to do there kinks or get to control what other consenting folk do in there own time.