sharing this here because it’s important 🧡🖤 “a majority of people support sex works rights but most people don’t want us as friends or lovers”
Im friends with a couple sex workers, I dont see what makes people not wanna be friends with them. One of said friends make me laugh my ass off more than not, them being a sex worker doesn't make them any less wonderful
What the fuck is wrong with people half my best friends are sex workers
Some of the numbers are about what I expected re: people and presumably monogamous partnerships. And some just felt like a very disheartening rehashing of the idea of SWers being 'used up'. Ugh.
Two things come to mind on the dating front. Fear of contracting stds, which can be eased with honest communication and regular testing. Fear/anxiety of not being as well equipped, or able to perform as well as the images seen in porn. Self confidence issues, which are on the holder of such.
More sex-worker besties for ME then. [Passes out fluffy blankets and snacks]
I've dated former sex workers and idk what the weird hang-up is.
When I dated a stripper/professional domme, the only downside to her line of work is that dating someone who works nights kinda blows.
Some of my best friends online are ones who left the work and stayed in contact with me of their own choice, which just feels incredibly humbling they viewed me as worth maintaining beyond the work/customer relation. What a stunning break down on those numbers.
I mean as long we we spark, why should I care?