Funny, I never "experimented'' w/that. Had an older cousin who tried forcing sex acts; we refused unless forced. Luckily, he died a year ago of cancer. One of his near victims only told me of her experiences w/him a year before she died a yr later. & I didn't become misogynist or homo.

Yet you did become a homophobe, so I am dubious that you are not also a misogynist.