“oh i can’t cook” you’d better be really hot & love doing other domestic labor instead then, i’m not signing up to be your goddamn mom.
The horror stories my sister told me of the men she's dated; a miracle that these men are still alive. They literally want a mom. Clean the house, cook the food, remember appointments, kiss their booboos. Cooking is fun, and even when I don't want to cook, it's still easy.
Yeah there needs to be a distinction between “can you make a 4-course meal” and “can you properly feed yourself”
I was a latchkey kid and one of the first things I did was teach myself how to cook from a book. Wound up making dinner for the family quite a few times as young as 9 Love cooking and it's a wonderful shared passion with my spouse
i didn’t transition to become some man child’s surrogate mother because he can’t wipe his own ass & hasn’t been to therapy. no thanks.
I just want to ask them how they survived moving away from home. That answer will be SO illuminating.
im in an awkward spot where cooking isnt always feasible for me cuz my disabilities but the times i do cook with my partner is fun :) and i mean we often do chores as much as we can
When I didn’t realize I was trans, I noticed that cooking was like an amazing romance move so I got good at it.