even more complicated is this qualia is not sensory. Gender identity and orientation are qualia of needs and desires. Neurotypes is a 'formal qualia' of an entirely different way of condition, sensory processing and fundamental neurological processes - a way of thinking, but not a world-view.

this solution here isn't trying to transmit qualia directly (one of the functions of art) as there is always information loss and it can never be 100% verified as the same. the solution is to not assume even your most fundamental phenomenological experiences are universal, a epistemic humility.