it's so weird to me when adhd people feel weird about their adhd because my entire family is very adhd so for me it's just like "ah yes i am like everyone i lived with growing up",,

The problem for me is that I feel society is gaslighting me en-masse. First of all the one psychologist i talked to, to figure out if I had ADHD, after many tests was really inconclusive about it - and then my doctor went "If you want to try again, go private, this will cost you [way too much]"