I super appreciate "t4t" as a concept for obvious reasons, trans people are hot. but I've had a LOT of people assume it's the default mode for a lot of people, and that's.. concerning, right? Like, why is the assumption for trans people that they only like other trans people?

Not to be all "woe be to the hets" but there is also a strange amount of dogging on trans women who are attracted to cis men. Like, yeah, it sucks most of the time, but it sucks worse to assume that every man attracted to a trans woman has some dark secret about them irt their identity