I watched Ouran High School Host Club, and really related to Haruhi, an AFAB who I think would be considered genderfluid in today's terms. She had one line about "I don't really care if you see me as a guy or a girl" and I was like "YEA! I don't really care about being seen as a guy, either!"

My partner and I were talking about trans and trans-coded anime characters, and I specifically brought up Haruhi for that line too. It definitely helped get the gears turning for my genderqueerness.

gentle reader, you might have noticed the glaring omission from that thought, but I did not for another ten years or so