I think the idea of self-care has become really warped, so I'm switching to making "maintenance and morale" bigger priorities in my life. Maintenance is eating right, sleep, hygiene, cleaning my apartment, doing all of my laundry. Morale is seeing friends, fun adventures, hobbies and takeout orders
and it doesn't have to be all at once, i'm five years in and still figuring stuff—i only found my actual identity over the past year. you got this
2, 3, 4 and 5 years HRT comparison hey you. yeah you, the person yet unsure of their identity, or just at the beginning of their (medical or not) transition. you got this. i believe in you. try shit out, see if it fits, see if it feels good, see if you like it.
omg hi
So with Cohost shutting down in about 24 hours, a note to every remaining social media site: You should totally rip off the "Following" pane. On the left: Everyone you follow, sorted by last post. Click a follow, and the right pane shows you their recent posts.
feel free to try this concept out