he also sent me this when i corrected his memorial page for someone who isn't buried there

"My relatives advised me" Oh well if your relatives say so.

Oh I would definitely "MAKE PROBLEM REQUEST AGAIN" if I were you

He seems very normal

Arrogant piece of crap isn’t he? I’d report him for harassment and dismissing the professional with the records, but I’m petty that way.

I'm guessing ppl can have their ashes buried, I'm also guessing that literally gets recorded by the cemetary. This feels like they sprinkled the ashes on the gravesite, which sounds slightly illegal.