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A lapsed moment of reasonableness She/Her Lover of utter randomness Irish since the (late, very late!) 60s Trans since the 90s Appropriating immutable biological reality since 1994 Yes, that is ogham: www.dcode.fr/ogham-alphabet
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ciara2001.bsky.social

Dating as a TERF

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TERFisTHEnewTREND

Yesterday 19:39

I'm a 34 year old female. I'm currently dating via Tinder.

When the gender issue has come up and I've mentioned that I'm a TERF, a lot of men have disengaged from me. I once went on three dates with a man, we got on great, and then when I mentioned my views on gender ideology, he ghosted me after!

Do you mention your stance up front or do you wait? I don't want to date anyone who thinks humans can change sex, is it worth stating this on my profile?

Any help/ advice/ insights appreciated.
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JHjj5000.bsky.social

I almost forgot about that. I would usually consider ghosting to be extremely rude, but in this case, it's totally justified.

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SHsamanthah.bsky.social

No wonder they all end up with usernames like CrazyCatLady+bunch of numbers

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PDpaulduane.bsky.social

They should have a dating app of their own, maybe

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Cary.bsky.social

Is it weird that I want to read the replies? Clueless people 😅

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Ccaezar.io

Anything that makes you feel righteous, like this, is probably fake.

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DPdustyponcho.bsky.social

Dudes Rock.

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Ppcanderson.bsky.social

Dear Abby, How long should I wait before I tell a romantic interest that I’m an insufferable bigot? Sincerely, TERF War

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PZlepatientzero.bsky.social

so proud of all these men!

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DTderiantheimp.bsky.social

lmao

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LAlediva.bsky.social

You love to see it

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@ciara2001.bsky.social
A lapsed moment of reasonableness She/Her Lover of utter randomness Irish since the (late, very late!) 60s Trans since the 90s Appropriating immutable biological reality since 1994 Yes, that is ogham: www.dcode.fr/ogham-alphabet
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