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Rynn M (they/them)
@cyberynn.bsky.social
Meet me at the combination rock climbing gym and secret accessible cripple treehouse for karaoke night. This is mostly goofing off, find me on LinkedIn for community, dev rel, observability. Trans af. Cyberynn on Discord & Masto.
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Aren't there some stale issues you could close or something?

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Hi I'm unfortunately an expert at this. Given it's probably 5 am there I'd cut your losses and start the day early. You can nap later.

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Where do I get such a thing?

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OK I definitely would like to go. Still recovering 2 weeks post covid so a bit slow but can make if. Thanks for finding this lmk if you want to go in a group or something

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Do you have a local gay community center or gay paper? Or just any sort of alternative weekly? Those are classic ways to find people & activities. Maybe also go round the bars and check for fliers or publications. Bars partly function as community centers.

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Most of the strategies have been covered here - dating apps and bars. I'll add that in bigger cities Lex is used as not just personals but community building. Meetup.com some places too. Chat up bartenders they frequently hear where parties are at. Search eventbrite, Facebook, bloom, and fetlife.

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Also, going to the same weekly activity will help - so karaoke but for the next 6 weeks, speak to the same ppl, try to remember details week to week, listen more than you talk about you, listen appreciatively. Many of the folks most worth being friends with won't want to become besties instantly.

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In my experience, there is a difference between met at a bar and "met at a bar doing an activity." If you met someone doing karaoke you can expect to do more karaoke and maybe expand to music; if you met at a drag show then you might expand to other costume stuff. Stick to activity nights.

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Remind me of the S2 opener? We're rewatching 6 and 7 and the Dominion arc.

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So I actually just stopped taking my birth control aka PMDD prevention device and ... shockingly, so far so good? I finally after a year experienced the increased libido advertised on the tin. I want enough T to stop my period but still begging for more there. Did your PMDD clear up for real?

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Rynn M (they/them)
@cyberynn.bsky.social
Meet me at the combination rock climbing gym and secret accessible cripple treehouse for karaoke night. This is mostly goofing off, find me on LinkedIn for community, dev rel, observability. Trans af. Cyberynn on Discord & Masto.
177 followers100 following700 posts