I bet the song is gonna be like "you are loved...! But not by me, stop being delulu"
partner is often how someone perceives being wanted by them in more than a physical sense... I have lived the insecurity of "they don't want this as much as me/in the same way I want it, so there must be something wrong with me" and it sucks. Well, long story short it made me think a lot ๐
boyfriend and that they would always have to initiate and it was the same experience with me and my ex, so it made me think about the stereotype that men always want sex and women don't, and made me reflect on how that dynamic might play into gay relationships, and how much sexual intimacy with a +
and he does sound a little like an asshole but maybe it's mainly an issue of communication and empathy with someone who lives sex in a very different manner. I've been surrounded with women, friends in straight relationships, who would often complain that they didn't have enough sex with their +
No that's ok! I think the whole reflection on the fact that in a couple there might be different "speeds" when it comes to sexuality and that the person who has the higher sex drive might feel like it's terrible of them to want or ask for more is very interesting. NJ's ex surely handled that poorly+
Found one of those Merger games yesterday for free on Steam and I played 4 hours jfc
reminder to new borasky ARMY that "no shippers" in your bio genuinely means "I hate all RPF" here! it will probably land you on a list like this one, that many authors use so other bsky residents don't have to see our fic - we take that seriously here ๐ bsky.app/profile/did:...