and he does sound a little like an asshole but maybe it's mainly an issue of communication and empathy with someone who lives sex in a very different manner. I've been surrounded with women, friends in straight relationships, who would often complain that they didn't have enough sex with their +

boyfriend and that they would always have to initiate and it was the same experience with me and my ex, so it made me think about the stereotype that men always want sex and women don't, and made me reflect on how that dynamic might play into gay relationships, and how much sexual intimacy with a +