I had to ask my husband if he had an invite code, and then ask him to give it to me. I’m pretty sure I was not his first pick. :p (In fairness I’m 80% lurker, 15% responder, and 5% poster.)

I will openly admit that I balked at the idea of sharing my first bluesky code with my fp. I did it and then they promptly didn't care on the level that they should have 🥲 right again.