As someone who’s trans, but not part of any in-groups here, I have a question about this week’s discourse: How many trans people got mad at “cissexual” because they secretly agree that cis is a slur? I’m not a fan of “cissexual”, but the proper response is to propose an alternative, not… all this.

There doesn't need to be an alternative term. The whole discourse is just exclusionary transmedicalism.