"Everyone has different needs and it is impossible to meet all of those needs." says who.

"a lot of people don't want to be autistic. Myself included." not really relevant to a discussion about whether making autistic people not autistic is possible in a way that isn't eugenic and oppressive.

Says reality lol. You can't met everyone's needs, especially when some needs contradict each other, or some needs require other needs to be ignored.