I used to work with one (until he got a little too loud about it on the floor and they finally had an excuse to fire him) whose answer could be summed up as "I'm built different". He was very convinced of his own charisma despite its total nonexistence and thought he'd be an exception

thank you, that is valuable info (tho exactly what I suspected). There were Nazi Jews back in the day, it didn't work out for them, either.