I agree and disagree at the same time, because it's a trending word that people are using in a positive, aspirational, and healthy way, but I get you, it's a fair point.

Fair enough, if people are reclaiming the term then all power to them! People are understandably pissed off at being treated as a failure (especially women) if they've failed to produce offspring. This was my introduction to the concept: amzn.eu/d/ajkFbRl