Don't tell them why it's not antisemitic, or why you're not antisemitic. That is going to make them not feel safe around you. B/c when we say something's antisemitic, we're not saying, "FYI some folks might be offended." We're saying you're sharing tropes that can get us killed. Please hear us!

And yes, (sigh) obligatory: genocide is worse than hateful words. If we ask you not to use "Zionist Occupied Government" we're not asking you NOT to object to war crimes. We're just asking you to do it in ways that don't spread thinking that leads to things like the Tree of Life shooting.