Its very useful and good but if you explain to someone here you were raised with a nanny/cleaning lady people assume you are like this

Indeed. Claiming “working at McDonald’s” made you working class when “losing the chauffeur” had already done the heavy lifting is just👌

Yes, whereas I just posted somewhere else in this thread that definition of middle class in developing world is having a cook. Rich is a cook, plus nanny, cleaner, gardener.

Both my parents worked silly jobs with long commutes and my sisters needed constant care. (Obviously I would have been fine trusted to be alone)