I love this. The offering without asking feels like a good reminder that people who care about you are, often, on the lookout for ways to care FOR you. & maybe that means it's okay to ask too?

Totally! And she offered as soon as I made the decision to move, even before I'd found my apartment, so knowing I had her support boosted my confidence to take the leap. Definitely ok to ask (I love when friends ask me), but also knowing you can count on the care you need is so empowering.